If you're still looking for Mr. Right or Ms. Walks-on-Air this February 14th, you might wonder if your chances would be improved by a visit to Valentine, Texas or Valentine, Nebraska. Recently a single friend suggested I write a travel blog called: You Don't Have to Go to Alaska to Meet the Man of Your Dreams. She wanted me to figure out where the most single men live so that she could vacation accordingly.
The travel matchmaker is in. After quite a bit of research, I have some basic findings to report. If you're looking to meet a single guy, go west. If you're looking to meet a single girl, it's time to visit the East. As this helpful map from National Geographic shows, Boston, Philadelphia, New York, Washington, D.C., Chicago, Memphis, New Orleans, and Miami are chockfull of single women.
On the flip side, single men seem to love to hang their hats in Texas. Austin, Dallas-Fort Worth, and Houston all have high quantities of testosterone. As you move westward, the manliness continues. Single men outnumber single women in Seattle, San Francisco, San Jose, Las Vegas, Phoenix, and Los Angeles. In fact, the map tells us that the Los Angeles-Long Beach-Santa Ana area has the highest amount of single men in the nation, with at least 40,000 more single men than women!
But Men's Health was worried that this data wouldn't be clear enough. Not wanting to squander an opportunity for their readers to make love connections, the editors boiled down the statistics and ranked the top 10 cities to meet a guy. Here's the top five:
1) San Jose, CA
2) Boise, ID
3) Anaheim, CA
4) Minneapolis, MN
5) Dallas, TX
While it might not have occurred to you to take your next single friends getaway to San Jose, now you have mathematical motivation. The capital of Silicon Valley is a veritable male wonderland. I do believe it actually rains hot dates there and eligible bachelors grow on palm trees.
Your mother might scoff at the idea that you'll meet your next leading man in Romeo, Colorado, but statistically the odds are on your side. Singletons, pack a bag, call up your wingmen and gal pals, and travel for love.









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Feb 27, 2009
San Jose is great...if you like men that hail from India.
Aug 10, 2009
I would say Austin, isn't that expensive. It's a huge college town with a more liberal style of thinking. You would look on the south side for a good place in Austin, or even look at places in Buda or San Marcos which are up to 20 minutes away. San Marcos also has a big school. And you could still visit 6th street Austin on the weekend
Aug 11, 2009
Best city for singles would be any city with a large Gay population.
Seriously. Being Hetero there is golden.
The less competition, the better your odds.
Aug 12, 2009
Austin ranks pretty high on most lists. Any college town will be pretty good. I personally like cities near the beach - Florida and California come to mind.
Aug 14, 2009
I'm 28 and single. I've really want to move to Boston. Do you think it will be really hard to find a husband there? I guess the results include singles of all ages, so maybe the odds wouldn't be that bad for me.
Sep 04, 2009
Alright, I'm biased. If asked to name my favorite American city, I wouldn't hesitate to bestow the honor on San Francisco---but that's because I've wanted to live here since first visiting at the tender age of eighteen, and now that I do, I can hardly believe my luck.
earn degree AND Music degree
Sep 04, 2009
As someone who grew up on a farm, let me just say that you'd better be paying me to stay at one.
human services degree AND history degree AND get degree
Nov 12, 2009
San Francisco, CA
50 Million Americans Can’t Be Wrong – Or Can They?
Advertising materials from some of the largest online dating services – Match, eHarmony, True.com and Yahoo Personals – suggest that over 50 million Americans are now using such services.
Internet dating has been portrayed mostly with "success stories", because many of those who have had bad experiences are too embarrassed to talk about them openly, thinking they are the rarity, or the "unlucky one". Movies and T.V. have also focused on the lighter side of internet dating and dating websites as opposed to the darker side.
Unfortunately, the online search for true love has often led to a broken heart and a depleted bank account.
The dark side of the story is that the anonymity of internet dating has afforded con artists a new playground for scams, and has allowed people to be anyone they think you want them to be.
Both women and men lie on dating sites, but about different things. According to a recent study conducted jointly by researchers for the University of Chicago and MIT, women on dating sites lie mostly about heights, weights, and ages. Women appear to understate their weight more and more as they get older: by five pounds when they are in their 20’s, 17 pounds in their 30’s and 19 pounds in their 40’s.
Men also lie about their heights, weights and ages – but, more insidiously, their lying is concentrated on their marital status (“Who me? Married!?), their occupations (Oh yes – I’m a famous brain surgeon…), their educations, and their incomes.
Why do men lie about more things than women do? Because it pays off for them – big time! Take education: The study indicates that men reporting a college degree, relative to those reporting only a high school degree, is associated with a 35% increase in the number of first contacts they receive from women.
Occupations? Holding everything else constant, the biggest improvement in outcomes is observed for men in legal professions (77% outcome premium), followed by the military (49%), fire fighters (45%), and health related professions (42%). Manufacturing jobs, on the other hand, are associated with an about 10% penalty.
And finally, the effects of reported income on the success of men online: While there is no apparent effect for anything below an annual income of $50,000, outcomes begin to quickly improve for income levels above $50,000. Above $50,000, the increase in the expected number of first contacts is at least 32%, and as large as 156% for incomes in excess of $250,000.
Does it pay for women to lie online about education, occupation, or income? Apparently not - women’s education, occupations, and income apparently have little effect on their online success.
So what’s a poor girl to do about getting the truth about a guy she’s met online? Until recently, other than perhaps a quick Googling of the guy’s name (and Google was never designed for deep personal back-grounding), nothing. Nothing, that is, until the advent of Guys and Lies.com.
The new Guys That Lie site (www.guysthatlie.com) is essentially an online lie detector designed for women looking to check out men they’ve met online.
According to Crystal Jacquez, managing editor of Guys That Lie , the site enables women to query any of 32 highly personal questions about a guy that she may want to have answered – First she clicks on the question she wants answered - then she types in his name – then she clicks again and gets the real story, instantly! Covered are such basic questions as marital status, age, occupation, education, financial status, criminal background records, and much more.
Where does all this information come from?
“Well, if the guy has ever paid taxes,” says Jacquez, “state, local, or federal – or If he’s ever paid a gas or electric bill, or a telephone or cell phone bill, or a cable bill. If he’s ever owned property, including a home or condo. if he’s ever used a credit card or even applied for credit, or ever brought anything on credit, if he’s ever sued anybody or been sued, we know about him.”
“In short,” she continues, “we have in-depth information on this guy unless he’s recently moved here from another galaxy – or – unless he’s operating under you a phony name. Actually, if he’s operating under a phony name, we have a section that will expose him. The “galaxy” part we’re still working on.”
“And one more thing, Guys That Lie.com,” according to Jacquez, “is apparently also being widely used to check out friends and relations, neighbors, co-workers, bosses, in-laws, teachers, enemies, people in the news, whoever… Who knew?”
Contact:
Crystal Jacquez, managing editor
Guys That Lie.com
415 678-8610
Crystal03@guysthatlie.com
http://www.guysthatlie.com
Nov 19, 2009
I am looking for something to refresh my mind, can i find there! i am so so stress right now with my work!
Dec 16, 2009
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